"And thus in our Substance we are full, and in our Sense-soul we fail."
Julian of Norwich (Ch. 57)
Our spirits are always complete and perfect in God, even if our outer thoughts and actions fail to be complete or perfect. In other words, we are complete in Christ even if we are broken, and we are perfect in Christ even if we fail. For our identity doesn't come from our behavior, which is changeable from day to day. Our identity comes from who God made us, from our true nature, from our spirit, the core part of us that is of God and in union with God. When we act out, we are really acting according to who we are not, rather than who we are. For who we really are is perfect and complete, whole and good. Even when we feel we are at our lowest and have failed too much to be salvaged, God still sees the best in us, still sees His image in us! Even when we are seemingly damaged beyond repair, He still calls us whole, never giving up on us, never failing to believe in us! He just keeps reminding us who He made us, who we really are. We can truly never fail or be failures in His eyes!
So when we sometimes make mistakes, let us not call ourselves bad or evil. Let us keep calling ourselves good and complete, for that is our true self. Let us see ourselves and everyone around us not as the words or behaviors they sometimes exhibit, but as the whole and good creations of God that they truly are. Let us not judge or reject ourselves or other people but instead give the benefit of the doubt and welcome them, looking for the good rather than the bad. Let us see the best in ourselves and other people, for that is what God does!
If you love someone, you will be loyal to him no matter what the cost. You will always believe in him, always expect the best of him, and always stand your ground in defending him.
1 Corinthians 13:7 (TLB)
A Prayer: Thank You for always reminding me of my true identity as Your child, made in Your perfect image of goodness and love! Let me see every other person for who You made them, too, and build them up in love!