I have come to believe that God is so happy with us right where we are on our journey, and that the way He shows each of us things is so personal and fitting for us on our journey, and He is just fine with us, so proud of us right now. That has given me lots of relief, that I don't have to figure everything out or believe perfectly or have all my doctrinal ducks in a row before He will be okay with me...
He is okay with all of us NOW. Isn't it great! He is so in love with us! He is so proud of us just as we are, where we are, right now. He isn't about doctrine anyway, just all about love. So I would never want to be about "pushing doctrine" but always about "spreading love."