Love doesn't say "Submit to me in every way, surrender every hope and dream and desire you have, give everything to me to do with as I please, and THEN I will help you, bless you, stay with you, care for you..
NO!
Love says, "You are always with me, and I'm always with you - I'm sticking with you no matter how you treat me, no matter what you give or don't give in this relationship, I'm in for keeps and I'm holding onto you, supporting you, on your side no matter what!... And ALL that I have is yours, right now, no conditions, no questions asked..I lavish ALL of myself and ALL of my love, support, blessing, help, and care on you, whether you ever love back, whether you ever commit yourself wholly to me or not!"
His love has no conditions...it is freely poured on us all, all the time, in every way, before we ever surrender and even if we never do have perfect surrender, trust, commitment, etc. What person would withhold their love and care until the other 'fully surrendered' to them or had 'perfect trust' in them? Love gives because that's what Love does! Love is giving of oneself to the other, without any stipulation or expectation!
Praise You, Papa, you love us without asking a thing from us! That is a love I CAN trust, that is a love I CAN commit my whole being to, that is a love I CAN sink down into and rest in - forever!